Couples Therapy Retreats · Semi-Private & Exclusive Private Intensives
Come Back to Each Other
A restorative sanctuary where luxury holds space for the most important work you will ever do together. Incorporating personalized workshops, private excursions, the 8 Forms of Intimacy, and Dr. Bathurst's proprietary Relationship Energy Framework — the only place in the world to learn this methodology.
Transformative Days
World-Class Guides
Couples Max / Workshop
Global Awards
The Proprietary Relationship Energy Framework
Created exclusively by Dr. Stephanie Bathurst, PhD, this award-winning system heals romance by addressing the energetic and somatic underpinnings of attachment. All 4 retreat experiences weave this proprietary methodology together with the 8 Forms of Intimacy, personalized workshops, and oceanfront excursions.
8 Forms of Intimacy
Diagnose and restore emotional, physical, intellectual, experiential, spiritual, creative, aesthetic, and crisis intimacy.
Flow Energy Dynamics
Harmonize polarities, rebalance libido discrepancies, and dissolve performance pressure without blame or effort.
Custom Excursions
Snorkeling at Shark's Cove, sunset aphrodisiac picnics, signature perfume craft, and sacred Hawaiian recommitment rituals.
All 4 Retreat Offerings
Choose the level of privacy, duration, and depth that fits your partnership. Every retreat includes direct access to Dr. Stephanie Bathurst and our proprietary relationship energy framework.
Fast-Track Breakthrough1 Day Couples Intensive (Hawai'i or Virtual)
Private Full-Day Deep Immersion with Dr. Stephanie Bathurst
When standard 50-minute weekly sessions aren't making headway, this concentrated 1-day private intensive creates the space necessary to address root issues without distraction. Held in person at our Hale'iwa sanctuary on Oahu's North Shore or virtually.
- 100% Private 1:1 intensive focus directly with Dr. Bathurst
- In-depth 8 Forms of Intimacy diagnostic assessment
- Relational pattern breakdown & somatic alignment
- Personalized action blueprint + 30-day follow-up check-in call
Most Popular Cohort5 Day Group Couples Intimacy Retreat (Hawai'i & California)
Co-Host Semi-Private Couples Repair Immersion
Combining the power of curated group dynamics with dedicated couple processing, this 5-day semi-private retreat limits workshops to just 5 couples to guarantee intimate, high-impact guidance. Includes gourmet organic meals, spa facilities, and oceanfront excursions.
- Led exclusively by Dr. Stephanie Bathurst & Kaitlin Wiechert, LMFT
- Personalized therapeutic workshops + 8-person sauna & cold plunge
- Guided adventures: Shark's Cove snorkel, Toa Luau & sunset aphrodisiac picnic
- Sacred Hawaiian Recommitment Ceremony & custom signature perfume creation
Exclusive Couple Sanctuary5 Day Private Couples Intimacy Retreat in Hawai'i
100% Exclusive Oceanfront Sanctuary in Hale'iwa, Oahu
Designed for couples seeking complete discretion and tailored 1:1 attention. Spend 5 days living on Oahu's North Shore with private access to our sanctuary, personalized somatic practices, custom excursions, and direct daily instruction.
- 100% Exclusive private oceanfront estate access — no other couples
- Daily 1:1 facilitation with Dr. Bathurst applying Flow Theory
- Private chef prepared organic culinary experience
- Couples somatic bodywork, breathwork, and ocean healing rituals
Pinnacle Luxury ExperienceVIP All-Inclusive Private Couples Retreat in Hawaii - 7 Day
The Ultimate 7-Day Ultra-VIP Intimacy Immersion in Hale'iwa
The pinnacle of intimate retreats. 7 full days of complete sanctuary and dedicated therapeutic, somatic, and relational care in Hale'iwa, HI. Includes private villa stay, holistic bodywork, red-light therapy, cold plunge/sauna, and ocean adventures.
- 7 Days ultra-exclusive estate privacy for celebrities & executives
- Direct daily 1:1 intensive therapy & coaching with Dr. Bathurst
- Dedicated private chef, wellness staff, and biohacking modalities
- Extended custom 60-day post-retreat integration container
Inside Each Day: The Full Itinerary
Not a single hour is left to chance. Every session, every experience, and every quiet afternoon has been crafted with therapeutic intention.
Arrive. Awaken. Begin.
- 9–11 AMAphrodisiacs: Awakening Sensual Energy — Dr. Bathurst explores natural aphrodisiacs, sensory arousal, and the biology of desire.
- 11–12 PMLunch & Haleiwa Exploration — Wander, breathe salt air, and let the island receive you.
- 12–2 PMAttachment Styles — Kaitlin Wiechert guides you through using attachment patterns as a bridge.
- 2–4 PMSpa & Integration — Finnish sauna, cold plunge, and quiet space for nervous system downregulation.
- 4–6 PM✦ Sunset Snorkeling at Shark's Cove — Shared adventure in salt water and golden Hawaiian light.
Sanctuary Amenities
World-Class Facilitators
Dr. Stephanie Bathurst, PhD
Founder · Clinical Sexologist · LMFT
Creator of the proprietary Relationship Energy Framework and the 8 Forms of Intimacy system. EMDR & EFT trained trauma specialist with 9 global awards. The only place in the world to learn her methodology is right here.
Kaitlin Wiechert, LMFT
Co-Host · Attachment Specialist
Specialist in adult attachment repair and emotional availability. Co-leads the semi-private retreat cohorts, guiding couples through attachment pattern work and somatic nervous system regulation.
Ready to Come Back to Each Other?
Spaces are intentionally limited to 5 couples per workshop. Reserve your sanctuary experience today.
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